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Nov. 7th, 2009


[info]countrymouse

From Twitter 11-06-2009


  • 17:33:36: Got replacement Kala Kiwi uke--not the same. :-( Sending it back for refund. Might be getting a reduced-priced concert Fluke! #fb
  • 17:39:46: @webcruzr21 Thank you very much. :-)
  • 18:03:46: Way behind on reading tweets--don't know when I'll get time to catch up. Doing dishes in a minute, busy this eve.
  • 18:05:41: Might be getting a digital video camera tonight on sale (thanks @deach !)--if so, Cat'r & I might make a video. We'll see. :-)
  • 19:20:40: @thisnthat I'm going to use the money towards a Fluke, I think. I might be getting one built from a "factory-second" top, so 20% off!
  • 19:21:25: @thisnthat Mainland some time in the future. Flukes and fleas withstand low humidity better--gets DRY in here in winter!
  • 19:44:51: @webcruzr21 Me too. Oh well.
  • 22:35:26: Well, that was a total bust: sound quality on $100 Insignia dv camcorder was worse than on my Canon PowerShot. :-/ 15% restocking fee.
  • 22:36:45: @thisnthat How does the relative humidity stay in your house? For ukes it should be around 40-50%, IIRC.

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[info]smeddley

Not a NaNo post!

Because I am behind, alas, and have not written in ages. Okay, two days. But still. Once you get behind it's so much easier to keep putting it off.

So, instead of cleaning the kitchen or writing or even going to sleep, I'm sitting here mindless, aimlessly cruising the 'net. Silly me.

But I did find this, which looks a LOT like the time we bought boots for the dog:



(she was about as amused as the cat is, and we ended up taking them back)

[info]gwionfawyr in [info]nanowrimo

November 7, 2009 - Word Count

Nothing witty today. Am trying to catch up between studying for Bio Test.

Jenn

Nov. 6th, 2009

[info]feministing_ij

What We Missed

Actress Gabrielle Union blogs in a smart and honest way about the horrific responses to the Richmond rape case, and about her own rape. Via Shakes.

More research shows that comprehensive sex education results in increased condom use among teens and lowers their chances of contracting HIV.

Gawker argues that the woman who shot Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan to stop his shooting spree is solid proof that we need to allow women in combat.

A new UK report finds that institutional racism in England schools prohibits ethnic minorities from being promoted and reaching top posts. 44% of folks reported being discriminated against.

Feminist artist Nancy Spero has died at the age of 83. She has written: "I have come to the conclusion that the art world has to join us, women artists, not we join it. When women are in leadership roles and gain rewards and recognition, then perhaps 'we' (women and men) can all work together in art world actions."

[info]feministing_ij

New campaign for HIV testing excludes women

"Status is Everything": These are the words repeated in the new HIV testing campaign to be launched by the Newark, NJ African American Office of Gay Concerns (AAOGC).

The website is not functional yet, as the campaign will be revealed on December 1, 2009, and officially launched in January 2010, but their preview photo shoot for the advertising campaign was released on flickr this week.

Photos feature young gay African American men with the caption "Status is Everything," and the ad campaign will refer viewers to a hotline and website where they can schedule free HIV testing at local clinics.

Not found in this campaign, however, is the need for a cogent campaign that's inclusive of young women of color. In 2007, blacks accounted for 44% of the 455,636 people living with AIDS in the 50 states and District of Columbia. And as Advocates for Youth reports,

Black women and Latinas account for 79 percent of all reported HIV infections among 13- to 19-year-old women and 75 percent of HIV infections among 20- to 24-year-old women in the United States although, together, they represent only about 26 percent of U.S. women these ages.

One idea that has circulated this year accuses black men on the "down low," that is, closeted black men who have sexual exposure to other men while dating women, of contributing to the HIV epidemic and women's infection rates in the US. Yet, the director of the Centers for Disease Control's National Center for HIV/AIDS, Viral Hepatitis, STD and TB Prevention, Kevin Fenton, concluded that the cause of increased infection rates among black women was instead the incidence of black men with multiple heterosexual partners. He cites data that shows a lack of bisexual self-identification among the community of HIV-positive black men. (Is it possible that the accusation that "down low" men spread HIV is an extension of the race-fueled trend of the feminization of black men?)

This advertising campaign, while potentially powerful in the gay male community, won't help the black women who comprise 61 percent of all new HIV cases among women.

One thing is certain: Newark's new campaign, while not targeted toward the women affected most by HIV, is a nice change from other disturbing HIV advertising we've seen.


[info]countrymouse

Ukuleles...

So I had gotten a Kala Kiwi soprano ukulele, but it just didn't sound right to me. I sent it back for adjustments. Instead the seller sent me a new one, but it's not like the one I had before, not having the pretty glossy back and sides (which match the top), plus he had forgotten to put the strap button in as I had requested. Not a happy camper.

I talked to him on the phone, and I'll be sending it back for a full refund.

With that refund money and the money I've been saving, I'm probably going to get a concert Fluke. Stay tuned.

[info]feministing_ij

Rihanna talks to Diane Sawyer

We'll have more to say on this once the full interview is up, but for now, check out this moving excerpt of Rihanna's interview with Diane Sawyer.


[info]feministing_ij

The Wire's gender problem


Stringer Bell is confused. "Whaddaya mean The Wire's not feminist?"

The Wire, the HBO series that ran for five seasons, will apparently live on, despite its shelf life, in a class at Harvard. And Professor William Wilson, the self-admitted "huge fan" who will be teaching the class, is high off of The Wire's Kool-Aid:

"I do not hesitate to say that it has done more to enhance our understanding of the challenges of urban life and the problems of urban inequality, more than any other media event or scholarly publication," Wilson told the audience before poking fun at himself, "including studies by social scientists."

As a racial justice advocate who loves politics and sexually diverse representations of people of color, one can't help but be a sucka for The Wire. (Also, I am not going to lie. I might have dedicated a Facebook status, or ten, to good-God-what-have-you-done-to-me Idris Elba.) But when you fasten your feminist goggles and take another gander, you are bound to get bamboozled, psyched out and sucka-punched by yet another attempt to be progressive -- hold the feminism.

Elizabeth Ault, a bad-ass feminist at the University of Minnesota, begins to sum up The Wire's gender problem in the title of her paper: "You Can Help Yourself, But Don't Take Too Much": African-American Motherhood on The Wire. At one point she states,

The Wire is quite capable of creating sympathy for the struggles of men... shows us characters like alcoholic police officer Jimmy McNulty, strategizing drug kingpin/real estate developer Stringer Bell, and corrupt (okay, maybe just stupid) cop Thomas Hauk, and doesn't dictate how we interpret their storylines; rather, much of the show is full of precisely the sort of representational ambiguity that obviates calls for "more positive representations" and earns the "authentic" plaudit--except, again, when it comes to black mothers, women without the social or cultural capital of those men.

Then she goes for the jugular:

The institutions that The Wire is so devoted to condemning have failed these women too. In order to make its damning assessment of urban politics within its own institutional context of Time/Warner-owned HBO, The Wire must make some compromises. In this case, black mothers' sexualities, their subjectivities, their desires, and therefore their fitness as parents is the price the show, like so many before it, is willing to pay.

Her paper has not been published yet. But it's chock full of good stuff about the director's decision to opt-out of "woman of color feminism" and her analysis of the director's reinvestment in "heteropatriarchal family." I don't know what Wilson has planned on the syllabus, but he needs to give our girl Liz a call. Because the urban inequality problem he rails on about is gendered.

[info]feministing_ij

Target Women: Beauty Contraptions

I just had to put this up, not only because Sarah Haskins is the awesome, because I've been meaning to post about that neckline slimmer for quite a while now. Intense.


[info]feministing_ij

My hometown now has an openly gay mayor

By this point, you've probably all heard plenty about Tuesday's election. About the governor's races in New Jersey and Virginia that went to Republicans, about the loss in Maine that overturned the legislative decision to allow same-sex couples to marry.

There was one piece of news that literally hit home with me on Tuesday--and that was the news that my North Carolina hometown, Chapel Hill, now has an openly gay mayor.

I often talk about what growing up in North Carolina was like for me--how in many ways my public high school experience there was pretty limiting. Being gay was just simply not an option in my teenage world in Chapel Hill. I didn't know any gay people, at least not any that I could relate with. My peers and I were very focused on dating, and dating boys specifically. I was in the closet for more than three years after leaving home--it took a while to undo some of the socialization of my childhood and meet those queer folks who I did relate to and whose friendship allowed me to explore my own sexuality.

Chapel Hill is an interesting place within North Carolina because in many ways it's much more liberal than the surrounding cities and regions. Jesse Helms, the well-known and always controversial former Senator representing North Carolina was often quoted for saying:

Why build a zoo when we can just put up a fence around Chapel Hill?

He was referring to the liberalism of my town--but what I've come to realize since leaving North Carolina almost eight years ago is that it is, in the end, all relative. Chapel Hill was liberal in comparison to the rest of North Carolina, but particularly for me as a young person there, that didn't mean too much.

So now, looking back, I wonder if having a gay mayor would have changed things for me growing up. Would it have made me see that being gay was an option, even for a political figure? Would it have opened up my world a little bit?

Maybe not. But after meeting a young person from my high school at a recent presentation and hearing him say that things there haven't changed so much since I left, I want to hold on to some hope that this could be the catalyst for a new reality for the young lgbtq people growing up in my town.

[info]feministing_ij

First woman ever broadcasts a World Series game

It's about time.

Whether you're at the parade in New York today yet again celebrating the Yankees World Series win or cursing their existence, there's one thing I think we can all be happy about - Yankees broadcaster Susyn Waldman made history last Wednesday by becoming the first woman in history to broadcast a World Series Game.

h/t to reader Cathy.


[info]prairiecrow

Quiz and Dragons



You Are a Unique Wedding



For you, love is rare and important. You consider love a gift, and you're know you're lucky for each person in your life who truly loves you.

To be unloved would make you feel rejected. You love carefully and deliberately, and you take being loved in return very seriously.



Romantic love makes you feel secure and taken care of. You take romantic relationships seriously, even in their early stages.

When you're with someone, you tend to quickly build your own little world together. It's likely that outsiders don't truly get your relationships.






Adopt one today! / Adopt one today! / Adopt one today! / Adopt one today!

[info]feministing_ij

Take Action Now to Pass Health Care Reform!

On Saturdays, I am Professor Foxy, but the rest of the week I do federal level advocacy focused on improving the health of LGBT people. This Saturday, the House of Representatives has a historic opportunity to do just that by passing its reform bill, the Affordable Health Care for America Act (H.R. 3962), TOMORROW, November 7. We have never come this far before - this is our chance to help make history!

It is crucial for the LGBT community that this bill passes with a strong majority. The House bill includes numerous provisions that are key to the health and well-being of our community, including:

  • a strong public option that greatly expands coverage

  • data collection that includes sexual orientation and gender identity

  • strict prohibitions on discrimination in health care and insurance coverage

Our community is the under- and uninsured. We are seniors and youth, women, people of color, immigrants, people living with HIV and AIDS, and transgender people. We are too often discriminated against by insurance companies and health care providers and denied the care that we need. The status quo harms our community and our families, and we deserve better.

Tell your Representatives to pass LGBT-inclusive health care reform NOW. CALL Your Representatives using the toll-free number 1-877-264-HCAN (1-877-264-4226) and ask them to support the Affordable Health Care for America Act. You can also email them through the House's web site. Speak up today for LGBT-inclusive health care reform. Let's fulfill the promise of real reform by making our voices heard about the future of health care in America.

[info]feministing_ij

Emma Thompson to remove name from Polanski petition

And because of a blogger, no less! As a big Emma Thompson fan, I'm relieved to find that after blog reader and blogger Caitlin to put together a petition urging Thompson to take her name off of Bernard-Henri Lévy's petition supporting Roman Polanski, it looks like the actress has had a change of heart. Reports Caitlin, who met Thompson after speaking at Exeter University:

Emma did not have much time between meetings, but she gave me all of the time that she had. I asked her why she had signed the petition, and she explained about how well she knows Polanski, how terrible his life has been, and how forgiving the survivor of the rape all those years ago now is. She said she thought the intentions of the judge were unclear, as were the intentions of those who arrested him recently. She told me that a lot of her friends had rung her up asking her to sign the petition, so there had been a certain amount of pressure. She said that she had already been thinking a lot about the petition, as others had expressed their dismay at her signing it.

I handed her our petition and the comments. She read them both through thoroughly, and came back to me. She said, while she supported Polanski as a friend, a crime is a crime. I don't know whether she had realised the extent of Polanski's crime, but she is now fully aware. She will remove her name from the petition - in fact, she said she would call today and sort it out. Even though, she stressed, Polanski has had some truly terrible experiences in his lifetime, experiences that we couldn't even imagine and which should not be taken out of the equation, she agreed that she could not put her name to a petition asking for his release.

She also asked Caitlin to pass along a message to petition signers, saying, "Know that I will remove my name because of you, and all of the good work that you have been doing. I have read your petition. I have heard you. And I will listen." Just awesome. So a big thank you to Emma, but more importantly - thank you Caitlin!

Via Shakesville, who had a hand in this too.


[info]countrymouse

From Twitter 11-05-2009



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[info]gwionfawyr in [info]nanowrimo

November 6, 2009 - Word Count

Post is up a little bit early. I have classes tomorrow and yeah, I'm hoping that you all are having fun and driving your characters through the paces.

Jenn

Nov. 5th, 2009

[info]feministing_ij

What We Missed.

On sex panic and technology.

GLAAD has put out a media reference guide. Please check it out now.

New Moon Magazine is in need of support. Read about them and donate.

Justice who denies interracial couples right to marry has quit.

via Racewire on beauty pageants being racialized.

[info]feministing_ij

Why Won't Those Big Mean Feminists Let Me Have My Naked Playboy Fun?

Johanna Kruppa thinks feminists are too uptight in their denouncement of "nudey pics" in Playboy.

"I think they suffer from lack of knowledge and tunnel vision. How many of those self-important, so-called 'feminists' have been on the set when a celebrity shot a Playboy spread? There you go. What is feminist about discriminating a photo shoot just because it involves female (partial) nudity that happens to give men pleasure? Pathetic," Krupa told Tarts in an exclusive interview.

Well, let me unbunch my panties so I can effectively debunk this idea that feminists are too uptight to see how empowering posing for magazines like, Playboy and Maxim are for women.

Feminists have opposing view points on pornography and other forms of erotic art, that is not a new story, but suggesting that feminists don't get how "empowering" it is to fit into society's standards of able-bodied, white, cis-gendered, thinness, well let's just say we totally get that. I am not saying the act isn't empowering for her, like she said, I wasn't there, but the process that empowers her is embedded in a really specific idea of what a woman should look like and the kind of woman that "turns men on." It is not the function of turning men on that is the sexist part to me, but the unrealistic expectation put on women through the production and proliferation of images like Kruppa's and the corresponding value put on women's bodies through this very same process. And the corresponding sexist vitriol spread in magazines like Maxim. Put a big girl on the cover of Playboy. Just once. Prove me wrong.

What is interesting is that Kruppa combines her criticism of feminists with America's inability to embrace sexuality over violence. She has a point there, it is true that in many ways violence is more acceptable in popular culture than sexuality, but that is not a problem of feminism, that is a function of sexism. Feminism can only make that better.

Related:
Sex and the Simpsons: Marge's Playboy cover

[info]feministing_ij

OK Cupid Study Finds Bisexual Women Most Likely To Consider Suicide.

Last week I linked to a study from OK Cupid about race and dating. OK Cupid released some more data, including who likes to use strap-ons and what slang daters are familiar with, and who thinks they are a genius (guess who thinks they are geniuses more often than not?) The data I found most striking however, was the data on who has considered suicide.

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<p class="ljsyndicationlink"><a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/018744.html">http://www.feministing.com/archives/018744.html</a></p><p>Last week I linked to a study from OK Cupid about <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/018508.html">race and dating</a>. <a href="http://blog.okcupid.com/">OK Cupid released some more data,</a> including who likes to use strap-ons and what slang daters are familiar with, and who thinks they are a genius (guess who thinks they are geniuses more often than not?) The data I found most striking however, was the data on who has considered suicide. </p> <p><img src="http://i276.photobucket.com/albums/kk34/feministing/Suicide.png""height=400"></p> <p>OK Cupid blog notes that the straight identified people are less likely than "other" to consider suicide. But the number that struck out to me was that the most likely group to consider suicide are bisexual identified women. </p> <p>Thoughts?</p> <p><em>Thanks to Dave for the link. </em></p>

[info]countrymouse

Mostly music

I did a little ukulele music video that is really just a chord progression for a beginners contest entry. I doubt I'm gonna win anything, as I am not a serious picker, just a simple strummer. But it's fun to get involved in these contests anyway. :-)

I wrote a song in the middle of the night last night. I got the words down, then sneaked as far into the back as I could with my little handheld tape recorder and sheet of paper with the words on and sang very very softly. I did not want to forget the melody like I had on a previous song!

Cat'r is probably not coming over tonight, as he's kinda tuckered out, so I'll probably do a video of the new song tonight, after it gets dark. It's called "A Wish".

ETA: I made the video--really dark (literally), but here it is.

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